Saturday, January 23, 2010

How would it work if a fifteen year old would want to move to their other parent's house?

He is extremely scared to talk to his mother because she gets very angry at almost everything. She is not very reasonable either and tries to control every aspect of his life.How would it work if a fifteen year old would want to move to their other parent's house?
That's pretty much how every fifteen year old sees their parent. I'm sure mom is more reasonable than that.





If it's something you and your son are considering, you need to take the lead and the heat. Talk to her yourself. Let her know what you and your son have been discussing.





A lot of times kids play both ends against the middle trying to keep both parents happy. You might be surprised to find out he is quite happy at home.





Talk it out with her. See what is best for your son...that's what parents are there for.





Good luck.How would it work if a fifteen year old would want to move to their other parent's house?
How's your communication with your dad? Have you told him you would like to live with him? If so, how did he respond? For it to really work, you'll need to have your dad's invitation for you to live with him, and your mom's willingness to let you live with your dad. Without that, it is very difficult... your dad would have to really want you there... enough that he would be willing to take your mom to court to create a legal change.





Your mom sounds very afraid. I bet she loves you a lot and is terrified of all the many ways you could get hurt in life. This may be an opportunity for you to be more mature than your age. If you can give understanding to your mom's concerns... really listen... repeat it back to her so she knows you understand. Remind her that she raised you well and that you can be trusted to make good choices (only if this is a true statement). Thank her for loving you so much. Remind her that you are a teenager... you need to explore life, try things out... but that you will keep your own safety in mind while exploring. Ask her if she would be willing to trust a bit more. Take time to listen to her. If you can listen for her emotions and her need for your well-being, you'll have more spaciousness for her ';controlling'; behavior... you'll see that it's an ineffective way that she is demonstrating her love for you. (This is great training for future romantic relationships too... the guys who really know how to listen reap the biggest rewards. Trust me on this one! :o)
you would have to go to court. and he would have to say he wants to be with you instead and state why. and you just have to prove you can care for him financially and emotionally. seek a lawyers advice on this one..
We got to choose when we were 13, so I think a judge would listen to him at the age of 15. You just have to show that the other family is at least as capable of caring for him as his mother is.
Usually after age 12 the child can choose where they want to live. Get the papers drawn up and move him in with you! Tell your crazy ex to suck wind!
Talk to the more reasonable parent.

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