I am almost 32 I had 2 children out of wed (14 %26amp;8). I have taken care of them solely. I am finishing a bachelors and my (ex) fiance of 2 years found out I was pregnant, weeks after the break up. My parents are Conservatives and my mom is religious and judgmental. I have a high risk pregnancy, and am looking for a non-confrontational way to tell her.( Stress is bad) So is it wrong to email a heart felt letter?Can you tell a conservative parent your pregnant in an email?
If you were adult enough to have sex and conceive a baby, be adult enough to tell her in person. You are 32 after all, and already have 2 other children, so really how badly can she take this?Can you tell a conservative parent your pregnant in an email?
I don't think an email is the right way to deliver this news. Write out exactly what you want to say how you want to say it, call her and say, ';Mom, I've got something really important to tell you and it would really mean a lot to me if you'll hear me out to the end.'; then tell her what you need to tell her. Include the information that your pregnancy is high risk and it would be better if she kept her disagreements to herself...
send her some pink and blue carnations and attach a card...dearest mom, guess what?...I would be proud of what you have done..taken care of and raised 2 great kids...you can't change your parents...so we have to move on...
no because that would only hurt her more. you need to let her know that you are an adult and things happen and no matter what you can take care of yourself but you really need is support right now because without it you will be all alone
I think email is just fine. You can get everything out you need to say, and without interruptions. It also gives her time to think about the situation before she responds. Good luck!
I would just tell her. Call her up or even tell her face to face...and ask her to hear you out. its better to just tell her up front. sending it in an email shows that you're afraid of her.
No I think this would be all right. However, if you told her in person, you might be surprised by her show of support for you.
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