What to do when ur sis is dumping parent responsibiltys on you?

My sister has a sixth month old baby and shes contstantly asking me to babysit for her while she parties and smokes with her friends.P.s shes also sixteen and im 14What to do when ur sis is dumping parent responsibiltys on you?
Tell her that the baby is hers and she has to be responsible. She chose to have sex and she chose to keep the baby, so the baby is her responsibility, not yours. If she can't handle the responsibility of being a parent then she should maybe rethink her decision to keep the child. You have to simply tell her no, and be firm about it. Tell her that you love her and the baby, but it is not your job to watch the baby constantly while she's out. She needs to realize that her child needs to come first.





I got pregnant when I was 15, had my son when I was 16 and I'm now 17 and he's 13 months old. I live for my son and I want to spend every waking moment with him. Sure I sometimes wish that I could go out with my friends or go to a party, but I know that Lucas comes first...What to do when ur sis is dumping parent responsibiltys on you?
Dude, my sister is living with me and she has 2 kids (2 years and 6 months) so I know how you feel.





First, if you feel like helping her out then help her out, but I know sometimes you just want to do your own thing, and when that happens don't feel bad for telling her no.





She needs to take responsibility. Once you have kids your life is no longer about you, its all about the kids.





Tell her no, and if she tries to guilt trip you just tell her, ';No!, Don't put this on me, your the one who let some dude put his c0ck in you. I'm down to help you out, but right now I don't want to.'; Also tell her that she needs to either get child support from that dude or he needs to help out, or both.
If it was me I would confront my sister about what she is doing and tell her I dont think its fair for you to put your responbilites on me. I would then let my mom and dad know all of what she is doing and hopefully you all can work it out has a family... But its best to confront something you dont like.
this is easy. because im in the sameish kinda situation. and i have a zero tolerance rule unless i ask to see the kids. just say no your busy and your going to your friends or your going to a party. being a parent is a big adult responsibility and she needs to stand up and be an adult. her party days were over before they began. yours are yet to come. say no. unless she pays you.
Oh my ....my sister has 4 and use to do that! but, they were not small children well into 6 yrs old and 8 yrs old and 4 yrs old.....i had a 8 yr old of my own but...there comes a time you have to...say sis im just the aunt:D
well, if shes picking drugs over being with her child, then i would report her to CYS.





regardless as to her being your sister or not, she needs to step up...but she obviously wasn't adult enough to have the child in the first place.








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Refuse to babysit. And if she leaves the child unattended, call CPS and tell them. Take care.
tell her to get stuffed that ur not the parent and that ur only 14. its not ur job and u can say no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Shut her *** down. tell her to take care of her own baby like a real mother would.
tell her she was the one who spread her legs and got pregnant with that baby and she needs to care for it.
Tell that ***** no and report her *** to child services. WTF are your parents.
Tell her no! Where are your parents?